Torch & Soul

Triggered or Inconsistent?

Are you overreacting, or is something actually changing?

Something feels off. Now you’re questioning their behavior and your own reaction.

If narcissistic behavior in a current or past relationship has left you second-guessing what you notice, that question can be hard to untangle.

This free seven-question Quick Check helps you look at what happened, what you can actually point to, and what’s still uncertain, so you have a clearer starting point for what to do next.

Free • 7 questions • About 3–5 minutes

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You don’t have to dismiss your reaction. You don’t have to treat it as proof, either.

A story changed. An explanation didn’t settle your concern. Someone pulled away, returned, or promised things would be different.

You’re left asking: “Is this bringing up what I’ve been through, or am I noticing something that needs attention?”

The Quick Check helps you consider both without forcing an answer your information doesn’t support.

Get clearer about what needs your attention.

Your result will explain what your answers suggest, identify the question that needs attention, and point you toward relevant help.

You don’t need screenshots, a perfect memory, or certainty about what it all means. Answer from what you know right now.

Before another conversation leaves you with the same question.

Take a few minutes to identify what remains unresolved and what you need help handling next.

You don’t have to decide the future of the relationship today. Start with the question in front of you.

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The Quick Check does not diagnose anyone, establish another person’s intentions, or tell you whether to stay or leave.